May I Pet Your Dog? – A Picture Book Review
Children seem to meet dogs everywhere—at the park, walking down the street, or visiting a friend’s house. At my book signings at the Lyric Theatre, I always invite four therapy dog teams to greet guests. The kids light up when they see them. Many children run right over to a dog without a second thought. There’s something magical about the connection between children and dogs. Often, it’s love at first sight, for both, but not always. That’s why it’s so essential for kids to know the right way to approach a dog. And it all starts with a simple, respectful question to the owner: “May I pet your dog?”
I adore this book. With Harry the dachshund as a kind and reassuring narrator, it gently teaches children how to interact with dogs safely and respectfully. Author Stephanie Calmenson, Harry’s “mom”, handles this often-overlooked topic with thoughtful clarity. At the same time, Jan Ormerod’s cozy illustrations capture a variety of dog breeds and real-life situations that feel familiar but never overwhelming. Simple, sincere, and full of heart, this book is a must-have guide for kids, parents, and anyone helping to build positive connections between children and dogs.
What Makes This Story Shine
Instead of a dry instructive tone, the book uses Harry’s first-person perspective: he patiently guides a young boy (and the reader) on how to “ask the owner” before approaching, let the dog sniff the hand, offer strokes from the side—not the head—and recognize boundaries when a pup isn’t comfortable.
Simple speech balloons make the key interactions easy for little ones to follow, complete with a variety of breeds and dog personalities, reinforcing the message that not every dog is the same.
Harry assures children that meeting dogs can be fun, while emphasizing the importance of respect and safety. A concluding spread offers extra tips for adults, and an author’s note reveals that the real Harry was a shy rescue dog who blossomed with tender care and gentle introductions.
Kirkus Reviews calls it “sweet, tender and charming,” applauding Harry’s narration and the watercolor art. School Library Journal recommends it for Preschool–Grade 2 readers, praising the apparent breakdown of proper etiquette step‑by‑step. Parents and reviewers appreciate it for its practical lessons and approachable tone, especially useful for kids fearful of dogs or on the autism spectrum.
About The Book
Title: May I Pet Your Dog?
Author: Stephanie Calmenson
Illustrator: Jan Ormerod
Publisher : Clarion Books
Reading age : 2 – 5 years, from customers
ISBN-10 : 0618510346
ISBN-13 : 978-0618510344
Dimensions : 8.5 x 0.38 x 7.62 inches
Grade level : Preschool – 3
Why It’s Worth Reading
May I Pet Your Dog? is worth reading. It’s great for parents wanting a fun way to introduce pet safety, teachers or librarians seeking engaging, instructive picture books, and animal-loving kids (and cautious ones too). Kids learn both the mechanics of petting a dog and the importance of empathy. Harry’s dachshund viewpoint keeps the content kid‑friendly yet informative. The author’s own rescue story gives it genuine heart and credibility.
This humane guide does more than teach petting etiquette: it fosters mutual respect and confidence in children. It’s a delightful classroom read-aloud and a thoughtful gift for families with young children or new pups. I highly recommend May I Pet Your Dog? It is a sweet, brilliant primer on responsible dog interactions.